Spiritual Guidance for Survivors of Sexual Abuse
75-minute 1:1 sessions for survivors seeking spiritual support in the stabilization, healing, and integration of abuse experiences
These sessions are for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, including those navigating repressed or newly resurfacing memories.
Ashley specializes in walking with survivors through the gradual process of stabilization, healing, and integration — tending to the spiritual and emotional dimensions of recovery that often remain unacknowledged in conventional therapy.
This work does not rush or re-enact trauma; rather, it provides a compassionate space to meet what is emerging with resourced presence. Through a framework influenced by Ancestral Lineage Healing, Internal Family Systems, Akashic Records, somatic awareness, and intuitive guidance, each session is an invitation to reweave the relationship between body, spirit, and soul.
The path to life beyond trauma is to complete the rough initiation that the sexual abuse began.
Trauma is the state of being in a suspended, incomplete initiatory process.
Though being witnessed and felt, the violated soul remembers the resonance of belonging and it invites them home.
Many survivors searching for support are looking for someone who understands the specific dynamics around repressed memories — the confusion, memory fragmentation, delayed recall, and spiritual disorientation that often accompany early abuse. Welcome home.
I’m an incest survivor. I was molested for the first eight years of my life. Every last trace of memory from this abuse was fully repressed until I was 32. I’ve spend the last four years devoted to metabolizing and moving this this immense ocean of pain and suffering. It is an absolute miracle that I am alive today. And I’m not just alive, I’m a thriving example of what is possible.
Arc of the Work
1. Stabilization & Safety:
We begin with ground and truth. This part of the journey is about cultivating safety in the present moment — in your body, in your breath, and in the space we share. Here we explore nervous-system stabilization, the need for control, and the release of secrecy. The focus is not on reliving trauma but on re-establishing a sense of power, choice, and trust in yourself.
2. Turning Toward the Sacred:
When safety is established, we turn to connection with the ancestors, and with the Divine. Tapping into an endless well of emotional support and nourishment, emotionally corrective experiences from your own people, and their ancient perspective, the personal becomes universal. The aim here is not dogma but relationship: beginning to experience that healing is possible.
3. Re-claiming Self:
This phase invites you to remember your Wholeness. We work with inner parts that have carried pain, shame, or guilt, and begin to re-parent and re-integrate them. Using IFS-informed dialogue and somatic awareness, you practice relating to yourself with compassion rather than control.
4. Integration & Awakening :
In time, the work ripens into integration — allowing new life to unfold. Integration doesn’t mean the past disappears, but that it transforms its hold on the present. This may look like greater emotional regulation, a deepening of spiritual connection, and a sense of wholeness and meaning returning to your life.
Working Together
Because this work unfolds relationally and at the pace of safety, a minimum of 3 sessions is required.
Extended containers are available for deeper work and integration.
Pay-what-you-can, support-if-you’re-able pricing is in effect for all Spiritual Guidance for Survivors packages.
My normal hourly rate for ritual work is $135/hour. Suggested rates are $65 - $225 per 75 min session.
Suggested: $195 - $675
3-session container
initial stabilization and orientation
Suggested: $325 - $1,125
5-session container
deepening healing
and relational safety
Suggested: $650 - $2,250
10-session container
ongoing integration
and spiritual unfolding
Begin Here: Meet & Greet Call
If you’re curious about this work or unsure where to begin, you’re invited to schedule a free 30-minute meet & greet call.
This is a gentle space to ask questions, share what’s bringing you here, and feel into whether this work — and this relationship — feels supportive and right for you.
Healing from childhood sexual abuse is not linear, and you do not have to do it alone. These sessions are a sacred space to meet yourself in safety, compassion, and truth — exactly as you are.
Essays on incest, recovery, the ancestors and grief:
What Does A Predator Look Like?
Little Fighter: Meeting an exiled part
How Celibacy Helped Me Integrate Sexual Abuse and Reclaim Pleasure
A Visitation, A Journey, A Book: How I Came Into Deep Relationship with My Ancestors
A Reintroduction: Unfolding the Whole Map
Griefwalking
WOMEN’S CIRCLES | PODCAST | ESSAYS + PROSE
Not ready for 1:1 work just yet?
This project is a refuge for survivors of sexual abuse — a space of ritual, remembrance, and healing.
Together, we hold a prayer:
We are shaped by what we have lived through, but we are not defined by it.
Here, through conversation, story, and shared wisdom, we explore the path from victimhood to empowerment, from survival to wholeness.
May this be a sanctuary where the personal becomes universal, and every voice helps to reclaim life beyond trauma.
